Roist - I too like the list and your positivity.

Regarding your kids and the home environment, though not optimal (I know), there's also a lot of good stuff there.

Thanks for posting.

Me 41, H 47, M 15 yrs, S11, S13
BD 1: 11/4/14 we work on it; really I pretzel myself
BD 2: 3/31/15 H goes down to "dorm room"
8/15: H back to MBR
10/15: H back in dorm room
1/18: H files, now divorced