Roist,

Thanks. Yes, that makes sense. I like that you are always so darn positive. And yes, I get that this is non linear.

You have s7 and s9 and your situation has been going on for years. How does this affect them and your parenting? My kids that age notice big things like who is sleeping where but not sure how much they understand about the less tactical issues.

Gordie

Gordie 40s W 40s M20+ kids
2016 BD W fantasy affair w OM1 I do everything wrong
2017 I start to DB W says TLTL files for D PA w OM2
2018 I do LRT W drops filing and OM2 situation slowly improving