ILYBINILWY - OW - what to do next 2

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I spoke to H after the school run where sure enough it was mentioned by another Mum to my friend. I was very calm and civilised and simply said I was slightly concerned about the kids finding out from playground gossip rather than from him. He started to try and pull me in but I resisted and said this is not about me this is about our kids and how they shouldn't find out about your A. He said he 'thinks' he's ready to tell them so told him we need to have a conversation about that before he speaks to them which he agreed with. I then said so can you keep a lid on it until please, he said yes so I thanked him and said goodbye before he could say anymore.

On the plus side I have finally agreed my settlement with work and so now have some breathing space financially and I can't believe what a massive weight that has lifted off me. I don't think I had fully realised just how much that was puling me down. I couldn't identify which was affecting me more so kept swinging between the two and I think that may have been why I've been in such a spin this week. It was also very amicable in the end my boss hugged me apologised and said he would do anything he could to help me in the future.

Now I can really focus on me and the kids and what we do next.