Forgive me for thinking someone would do something as simple as to actually call me when she said she would, it's a ridiculously easy thing to do. I do have expectations of people in general and treating someone with a small amount of respect is one of them.
Ive generally stopped posting to you, as most of the time I agreed with the advice you were already getting.
I did read this and thought it interesting that several pages back you had told W that you were going to write her a letter explaining something and never did. I understand why you didnt, and frankly, I think writing a letter would have done more harm than good. My point is more that you seem to take a lot of offense to this act when you kinda did the same thing not that long ago.
Originally Posted By: Cali08
These are questions that are so confusing to me.
As for this, one thing I can say from having spent some time around here reading probably hundreds of different situations is that any individual action by the WAS is incredibly difficult to interpret. There are so many possible reasons and motivations behind any individual action that it makes analyzing that single one incredibly difficult to get right. Why didnt she call that one time? Who knows - anything we say is just a guess.
Instead, I think it's better to look at trends. Like you said in a different post, "I think what scared her is that I was finally giving up on her." I think that this is an excellent insight. By being dark, it gave her the sense of what her life would be without you, and I think you can start to see the cracks.
