Hi Gordie

Thanks for your appreciation.

I can usually count on having one or several good interactions each day. I encourage and create opportunities for these to occur. But when they don't I don't force them. I give W space and let the poorer interactions just be.

"Good" and "poor" are relative. Positive and negative maybe better terms. Or Eben less negative and negative could apply. But I seek out the positive. It is a choice and truly helps. Last weekend we had a lot on and the limited interactions were low quality. This process is not linear. This happens.

Hope that clarifies it for you

Best wishes

R 25 years
M 14 years
S11 & S13
Working on it alone since Oct 2014
M in trouble a lot earlier (~2 years)
Feb 2016. 1st R chat in a yr.
Next R chat Aug'17
Still together