Z what a nice surprise to hear from you. Thank you for taking the time to write.

I have been thinking about setting up an account to join the fb DB group to see what is happening there and to check if you were there. I will get to that thissummer. I remember your team and had checked out their website.

My pleasure to hear from you was tarnished by interpreting that your M is still as it was. I wished you otherwise. I was heartened however to learn you are still busy and making the most of the rest of your life. I recommend your story to anyone with a live in WAS as a great example of how to really live regardless of this one aspect of our lives. I will get there too. You are dead right about not putting life on hold.

I looked into derby racing here but at the moment it doesn't cater for guys! Guess gender equality works or doesn't work in both senses. Haha.

Anyway best wishes and I appreciate the visit


R 25 years
M 14 years
S11 & S13
Working on it alone since Oct 2014
M in trouble a lot earlier (~2 years)
Feb 2016. 1st R chat in a yr.
Next R chat Aug'17
Still together