So just and observation when my W moved her stuff out she took ALL the pics of US even every single M photo. Idk why but that seems odd to me and I could view as a good thing cause she wants to keep them but now sure why? did you want any? If so, please ask her to make you a copy. Do not ask her why she took all of them.
But she didn't take any M gift that had our anniversary date on it like a few glasses and a cutting board so maybe she wants the pics but not the M date? Again I'm over analyzing things I guess. yes you are massively over analyzing. Maybe she didn't want to take things of monetary value without discussing it or she's not interested in having reminders of the date, etc. I have seen so many gestures or behaviors like this analyzed and it's almost funny how wrong we are. Takes too much energy to guess.
Over all today I feel like I'm more determined than ever to truly GAL more and to focus on my 180s to just overall better myself cause that's the only person I can change.
\ True! My suggestion would be to make a few specific goals for GAL, rather than "overall better".
Like you "will join an organization/team/club/church this month.
Sign up to Volunteer or coach or take a class or study a musical instrument this week, etc.
Start an exercise program this week, reach out to an old friend within 48 hours.
Plan a trip (and you already have a job with travel!!)
This^^ will yield results. Most of them cost little or nothing. And you will feel better, and detachment will become easier in time.
Hang in there
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
