For the record, I never asked them to say a thing to her. But they care very much and every time they would call. They would ask my W if she had gotten things straightened out with herself and at least try to work on the marriage. Like I said one day W will realise all that she has lost chasing after OM who won't even put in the effort to deal with her. I just know that when that day comes my W won't know what to do with herself. And there's a strong possibility that she may try to cause harm to herself. So if she does beg for me to take her back one day. Then that's another issue that I'll have to deal with.