Quick question. Out best friends, another married couple are in town visiting. They have been in full support if me throughout this whole ordeal and habe let W know what she is doing is flat out wrong. They're very religious and don't believe in divorce. Also they had some issue early in their own marriage and are now the perfect couple. The wives are meeting up in a few hour's to meet for coffee. I know the topic of the marriage is going to come up. So I am wondering if I should contact our friend and tell her not to mention the MR or just let her say what she plans on saying? Not sure if them preaching morality is going to make things better. But at this point they are getting fed up with W lies. And they seem to be distancing themselves from her. W is so arrogant that she doesn't even see what her actions gave caused.
Hello Tread,
You are so smart to recognize that it could be a tricky situation between your W and the friend. Having them preaching morality isn't going to make things better between you and your wife. If they are already distancing themselves from your W, that is up to them. Even if your W is too arrogant to see it right now, these will be will be her consequences, not yours.
Cristy
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