Infidelity/WAH, my story pt 10

[PsySara]

So there have been some significant changes in WH's behavior. He continues to be attentive and asks me daily how I am doing. Our physical contact is more often and WH seeks to touch me. Of course I still struggle with triggers and ruminating thoughts but the frequency is less as well as the intensity of emotion.

We have been scheduling more time together and we communicate more throughout the day through text. He gets up with the baby at night and has told me he wants us to start going to the gym together. I am still VERY pulled back and cautious. He has burnt me more times than I can count so I am carefully observing his actions and watching for consistency. It's taken almost 2 years but I think I am starting to see the birth of a relationship that may work. We still have a LOT of work to do but I think there is hope.