Tonight H thought I was at a function when I was actually at a friends close by because I couldn't see him, see earlier posts. Our nanny called me around 9 and asked if I had seen Instagram, I said no I don't have it. She then sent me screen shots of what he had put on (she doesn't know about our sitch). She said she was sorry but thought I should know as lots of our friends and family are on it. H had posted a pic of a cocktail drink and him and OW had proceeded to have a pretty open conversation for all to see. I know I have been told to ignore social media but I find this completely unacceptable when people who don't know find it necessary to make me aware that my H is having an A and he is blatantly flaunting it. I text him and said I needed to come home as I had been called into work early in the morning, his response was, Oh great so I have to drive back, thanks'. He then called and asked what was going on so I said I really needed to go to work in the morning so needed to come home. I said a friend would watch the kids if he wanted to go but he said they were his responsibility and he would wait for me to get back. I got back around 10.30 and he was a little sheepish and apologetic and asking me to call him to let him know what happens tomorrow. He's back in the afternoon so I said no need for me to call we can talk about it in the afternoon and it really wasn't his concern.
I want to say to him that we are not friends by his choice and this is not OK. That I will be civilised and keep him informed at all times about the kids and be friendly in front of them. I want to tell him what is going on in my life is nothing to do with him unless it affects the children and he can't have his cake and eat it as well. Is this OK?
Me 46 H 39 M 11 T 14 S 10 DO 8 ILYBNILWY 11.06.17 Separate rooms 11.06.17 ILW OW A ongoing 12.06.17 Kicked H out 23.6.17 H came home 20.8.17
