this post from Another is worth reading THREE times. I worry you will React and take his post line by line and try to rebut it. But he's quoting you. So take it in.
Take it in...breathe, and give it real thought. Try not to react to it at all for awhile.
He took a lot of his own time to post to you, not to make you wrong, but to help support you on this journey.
We know it $ucks. We have all been there in some form.
We are rooting for you.
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