And that's where the dilemma is with me. I was always dependable, but we noth got neglectful. Now I have turned that around. Burbs still wants to leave. And now I am at the point of detaching. But I still habe to keep up with the 180 of not not neglecting her. So I have kept my space and done my own thing, while being available to W. But it seems to make detaching difficult.
