Cali - please know that I support you and would love for your marriage to work out.
That being said, you are an impossible dude to get through to. Every single response from you is a retort about how wrong we are all about you. Granted, none of us know you personally. However, just reading your responses boggles my mind.
You claim you don't need your W, you can move on, you have no expectations, you aren't mad, you aren't pressuring. Dude, I see just the opposite (I'm sure you will tell me how wrong I am).
Let me ask you a question... why are you here? Please know that I am not attacking you. I would really like for you to be able to honest with yourself. Maybe, just maybe, your W feels like I do (that you are never wrong and will fight to the grave to prove everyone else wrong).
I think it's safe to assume that your W doesn't think like you do. Does that make her wrong?
