He said she's just not the same, that for the last 1 1/2 to 2 years (about BD time) she's different and he's just biding his time till he can move out. It really cemented for me that I just don't want to be with the new her, EVER...
This seems silly. Like who knows how you and she will feel in another year and half. Just accept that you dont want to be with her as she is now and leave it at that. You can wake up and make the same decision another day.