Wife moved to parents on opposite coast #4

[25yearsmlc]

In my recall

you did say something along the lines of "we should" have a face to face, which I totally thought was legit.

But yes, it was similar to saying she owed it to you. And I wouldn't get bogged down in that wording. What difference does it make?

Here is what we know...

1) during the m, she was lonely a lot, and away from her family/support system too. This was communicated to you.

2) there were some personal issues between you two that resulted in her feeling less than desirable, and that's a tough thing for any woman, let alone a young one...



3) she left - and then you both communicated by text, for the most part.

I assume the reason you did not fly out immediately or call her, is b/c she said she wanted space and you felt like texting was the way to go. And for the last time, I promise, you did not offer to quit the job or move back east - for some amount of time, but instead tried to persuade her that it was not the solution to her troubles.

4) she filed for divorce/you went to see her

5) she was not or did not make herself available.

6) She's reaching out to you now.

Questions - You've said before that her family is supporting her in filing for divorce, as well as her friends. Other than single men who may want to date her, why would they support a divorce over remaining married? What is your r like with her family?

Finally, What do you want to do now, if you know?