Hello
It has been quite active this week. It was my birthday last week. I did not expect anything this time for I got disappointed too many times. Well got a msg only of happy birthday and msg said" young lady to stay beautiful forever" no idea what does that means . Anyway I treated him same as everyone who wished me happy birthday saying thanks appreciate the nice wishes . That is it.pathetic I know but I didnot expect anything more.


Last week my younger asked him if they can talk next day so they set a time for next day. Kids were in the mall appently they sat for 40 minutes sent him a msg but he did not call and neither did they. I was pissed off when they told me but they seemed so ok with it ... seems they were playing around and her phone was low battery then it died. Next day he sent a msg to them asking if they are fine so they replied lightly that they sent a msg but phone was low and that is it. Nothing that they waited for 40 min so I didnot stress on anything. In normal occasions I would have given him a peace of my mind but we all let it go... as if he is not important . We never discussed it.


I was reading a blog and the poster advised that lbs have only two options stand or walk away and not to help or initiate any divorce actions . It is so weird but lately I got to know three of my friends who are officially sepersted but not divorced . It is so weird when you are oregnant you feel too many people are pregnant too and now when I am separated feels a lot of people are too.. seems contagious ...

I don't see myself living with him no more.but will wait to focus logistics one day when he is ready to talk... I am not planning to make his life easier for him.

Last edited by job; 07/06/17 03:13 AM. Reason: Removed referenced initials for a blog
M 45 H 45
D1 12 D2 9
BD 04/14
Living two different state
Not officially separated