Other than occasionally arguing about OM every other month. We generally our getting along just fine. You wouldn't think there was a DB on the horizon. The problem is that W wants to leave the MR. So making a divorce an ultimatum for continuing to associate with OM is nothing more than a joke to her. So right now I feel like a clawless/toothless tiger in regards to that. All I can do at this point is just continue to detach. That's why I am seeking advice in regards to that piece of disrespect.