So the W just stopped by to get some of her outside stuff, I kept myself busy doing other stuff we talked a lil at the end. She made the comment "thanks for letting me stop by" kinda like she was bitter that I asked her to start letting me know when she comes by for now on. I said to her it's not like that you're always welcomed I just really appreciate it if you just let me know for now on is all. It makes me feel bad now that I made that boundary with her but it's the first thing I've done this whole process that's not on her terms so I don't thinj she likes that.
