Can't lock W out since both our names on the lease. But I have considered it...lol. I feel disrespected that my W is claiming and continues to be friends with OM. Who basically threatened me when I contact led his W a few months back. Every time I bring this up, it leads to an argument.
Heres what I dont really understand. What is there to 'argue' about? Its not a he said, she said. If you feel disrespect, then say you arent interested in being in a relationship with her if she is going to continue to contact OM. Then be prepared to follow through. You cant control her, but you are in charge of what you will accept in your relationship.
Originally Posted By: Tread
But I was curious to know if the W interest in a particular activity would peek her interest more.
I mean you know your wife best. But, I would GAL how YOU want to. That will bring the most confidence and satisfaction for you, which is the whole point of GAL to begin with.
Originally Posted By: Tread
DB book did say to come off happy.
Happy is good. Nobody wants to be around an Eeyore.
