Sandi and anyone who may have experience with such,

My question is in regards to handle a WW, especially in my current sitch. W has retained a lawyer, but has yet to file BD papers. We're currently working on the parenting plan. Thanks ahead of time for the responses.

1. How to handle WW when she crosses a boundary?

2. What are the examples of losses that could possibly shake a WW out of the fantasy fog?

3. Best way of detaching that would catch the attention and GAL of a WW? Some of the things I'm doing are interesting to W, but she would never want to participate in.

4. How to be tough and a non-nice guy without coming off as your old self?


MR: 15 T:17
Me: 37 W: 34
S14
BD/PA/EA: 12/2016