Originally Posted By: Cali08
So once I get off my flight this morning back from the East Coast I turn my phone and and guess who text me. You got it, my wife. She just says hi and that's it. I don't respond and about an hour and half later she text again and says "Having a good 4th". Again I don't respond and then about 15 min later she text again with "I'm just laying around thinking. You're probably not going to respond to me."

What the hell is this crap.


Sounds like a temperature check. I'm wondering if her family pushed her into filing for D. Her attitude doesn't seem to be consistent with someone that wants D, as I said before she really sounds like she's happy to stay in limbo.

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This game she is playing is getting real irritating to say the least. I don't respond because I just don't know what to say anymore. What the heck does she expect from me? How do you guys respond to this kind of behavior?


What do you want? Do you want to stop the informal chatting? If you think that's best for YOU, then send her one last note politely explaining that you're not going to be replying anymore because you feel that's best for both of you to move on. Then quit replying.


Me: 60 w/ S18, D24, D27

M: 21 years; BD: 06-14-12; S: 09-10-12; D final: 03-17-14; XW:57