all I can say is as much as I didn't want to separate or have XH leave the house for good It definitely was easier living without his negative hurtful energy around
so If the situation and living together seems too difficult-living separately may be better but I wouldn't leave if it were me till I knew my rights financially
will she be keeping the kids
married 14 years H 42 bomb 2/07 IDLYA D final 3 /09 M ow D ow