It concerns me some using NC with my wife when I've had several people in her family and friends say to me they know her and when she's done she's done and there's nothin you can for her to get those feelings back. I'm sure a bunch of waw say that but I know she's told me about her past R and it seems pretty true that when she gets hurt or mad about something she's out and doesn't look back. But this is a marriage and she's never been in a R even close to as long as one with me so surely that ca change things? Maybe? Besides that I've done a lot better as of late not putting pressure on her and not taking about the R. I've been doing a lot of GAL things but I still find her popping into my head even during the things I love to do. It's almost been 7 weeks so I know it's still very early and her hurt has got to be very fresh and painful still.
