Well I hope you guys will approve of this. I did call H this morning to see what plans were for tonight. He didn't answer and didn't call back. He text me a few hours later asking if we were on the boat.
M: I tried calling you this morning to figure out what the plans were but never heard back. H: I never had a missed call H: I'm on my way to the house now. M: The boys are on the boat, I'm getting ready to leave. H: That's okay ill still come spend the night and I;ll clean up around the house. M: Don't worry about it staying the night, we won't be home until late. Thanks anyway, Happy 4th!
no response... I see he isn't going to stay at his boss' hes going to stay at a mutual friends tonight. I hope my interaction was okay. I am trying to enforce the boundary of you cannot be gone all day with OW and then come here for family time for a place to stay and have your needs met on the end of the family. I hope this is the right thing.
I didn't mention anything about what he did today or if he was at work, etc etc. Just leaving it be and letting it go, well trying to .
