So once I get off my flight this morning back from the East Coast I turn my phone and and guess who text me. You got it, my wife. She just says hi and that's it. I don't respond and about an hour and half later she text again and says "Having a good 4th". Again I don't respond and then about 15 min later she text again with "I'm just laying around thinking. You're probably not going to respond to me."
What the hell is this crap. I don't get this behavior at all. Here I am doing exactly what she asks for. This just makes me mad more than anything. This game she is playing is getting real irritating to say the least. I don't respond because I just don't know what to say anymore. What the heck does she expect from me? How do you guys respond to this kind of behavior? At this point I feel that she thinks that she has some kind of control over me and can string me along and who know's it just might be for the fun of it.
I spent 5 days in her area and she couldn't even hold up what she told me she was going to do and that was to simply give me a call back when she was the one who asked if she could call me in the first place. At this point I feel extremely disrespected. I wouldn't treat anybody this way, let alone someone that I loved.