Yeah maybe you should have started out with "i'm not comfortable discussing this matter with W's family"?

Maybe then she would have butt'ed out and not discussed it any further. That could have spared you the irritating feeling.

M:46 WXW:40
T:20 M:13
D3,D8,D10
BD:11/12/16
D:12/14/16
OM confirmed 01/20/17