ILYBINILWY - OW - what to do next 2

[SJW]

Thanks Mark

I know you're right but it's not something I will put to him as I know what the answer will be and I don't want to hear it.

The kids don't know yet and they're used to him being away with him being in the army it's only been just over a year that he has been able to get home during the week before that it was just weekends if he wasn't working. That said I feel it may make things easier if the kids do know?

I've just been reading your thread form the beginning you had a proper BD didn't you not dissimilar to me. I couldn't work out however at what point you told your kids? Did she tell them or you or together and did she/you tell them it was because of OM?

SJ