I dont know your full situation but you may want to consult a L- this doesn't mean you will file or even tell your wife its just to learn the facts and the law in your situation many L here do free consults and they give a ton of great information I saw a L early on so but he time my xh Filed..I had a very good L in place I knew my rights ..I got to keep my house //I could protect my kids from his craziness I saved our business
jGo -just to see your options, especially if you do move out
I would hate to see you at a nearby hotel to renting a room especially if you own another flat its better to know what your options are just in case in comes to D the MLCer will try to take everything they can with no concern for the LBS or the kids protect your assets and your self
the MLCer will do what they will regardless if we are nice or not
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