He's gone and I think I did pretty well. He was asking lots of questions about my job etc which I answered friendly enough without giving too much up. He kept commenting on how much I had done in the house and what a great weekend the kids had said they had. He said I didn't ring for obvious reasons I said it was fine. He kept asking me if I was Ok and I kept saying yes fine, he was like I still care and I said I know but don't worry he said he was worried, I actually wanted to punch him in the face but I smiled instead, lol.
He asked again about going on holiday in August and said that his Mum had asked him if he wanted to take the kids away with them as they are going on a big family holiday. I told him that as I said last week August is a long time off and we have a lot more to do before then.
He then said could he come back on Friday and stay the weekend as it was cricket practice Friday night and football tournament on Saturday. I told him he could come back but couldn't stay I the house. He wasn't happy but said OK. I then asked him if he wouldn't mind leaving as he had a long drive and I had things to do.
I actually feel OK. Not great, but not heavy hearted or tearful or disappointed a kind of good side of OK. My first successful day of DBing I think. Man this is going to be an uphill battle, however I made it about me not him and really tried not to be drawn in. Thank the Lord for this place :-)
Me 46 H 39 M 11 T 14 S 10 DO 8 ILYBNILWY 11.06.17 Separate rooms 11.06.17 ILW OW A ongoing 12.06.17 Kicked H out 23.6.17 H came home 20.8.17
