Just wanted you to know I was thinking about you. I feel like you and I have just returned to 2014 together, not in a good way. Someone, whether it be W or not IF she figures out her [censored], will be lucky to have you. YOU are here working on yourself and improving yourself to be successful in your next relationship. She will be sad if she misses out on that BUT she has a lot of work to do on herself first.
I sometimes think it is easier to not have to see the WS everyday. I'm not sure, I think it goes both ways. I hate to see my H every single night sleeping on the couch living out of a backpack and cant even eat dinner here or leave a toothbrush. It's almost easier when they aren't around to be reminded constantly of how much they AREN'T emotionally present even though we see them physically. Anyway, point of the story is -- use this time to work on yourself and figure out who you are and what makes you happy without her clouding yourself. Block her number for a bit if you have to so that hearing from her doesn't spiral you in the wrong direction.
