I know the consultation period can last a long time (90 days) is there much you can do to manage the outcome..? It's surprising how much these two situations in your life can be managed in much the same way! I feel for you as it must be very difficult hang in there.
When all seems to get on top of you remember to go back to the basics and get that DR book back out it will serve as a reboot and put you back on track, I do this all the time especially when I'm alone.
Remember you're strong and fully committed, keep working on you and be patient.
Mark.
DR'ing started March 2017
Don't blow the last bridge up from fantasy island, act "as if".
