Who's fault is this again? Can I forgive her?

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I too am glad you found someone you feel comfortable with and allows for enough space for you to raise your girls..I have had a similar R for many years

I believe many of the LBS here do move on to better more available partners
Our kids seem to adjust and even despite all the craziness MLC brings on, they become wise young adults making positive choices

As time moves on, we fully let go of our M and Xs-our worlds seems a million miles apart and they most likely are