Thank you you're helping massively but I am actually not expecting anything but more of the same from the alien. The man I am talking to currently is not my H and may never be again. The reason I feel positive is because I actually managed to get through a telephone conversation acting as if and it actually wasn't that difficult after such a positive weekend for me and the kids. Not even sure if I was acting as if, yes there were so many things I could have said to him but I couldn't be bothered it says more by not saying what he is expecting.
I have done a lot of clearing I the house this morning, done all the ironing and later this afternoon I am going to pick up my boys new bike, get my nails done and do some food shopping. The slight dishonesty was that I told him I was at work so would be back late, I didn't want him thinking that I was off wallowing in self pity. He knows how tough the work sitch is but that's my responsibility and absolutely nothing to do with him right now, it's my job not his and doesn't affect him or the children except positively for the kids as I'm around more. I am technically still employed and on redundancy consultation but pushing for a settlement agreement with another idiot who isn't playing ball despite the damage I could do to his business and his personal life. My boss is in hiding thinking it will all just go away and it won't.
I hold the cards in both situations and much I would only like to have to be dealing with one at time that's not an option I have. In some ways dealing with both is worse but in others it means I have to put my business head on and push on because on both fronts it's about me and the kids first and foremost.
Keep you posted, thanks again.
SJ x
Me 46 H 39 M 11 T 14 S 10 DO 8 ILYBNILWY 11.06.17 Separate rooms 11.06.17 ILW OW A ongoing 12.06.17 Kicked H out 23.6.17 H came home 20.8.17
