I agree with Benni8 here. I have the problem that I constantly see my WW due to us sharing custody of our boys, what I do notice is the push-backs I receive. What I mean is sometimes everything seems to be going in a more positive direction and then all of a sudden bang they go back to their old behaviour patterns. Why? To justify their feelings for the AP/LO, just be prepared for the conversation and look into "charging neutral" this will help you stay in control if it doesn't pan out how we all want it to for you.
I feel you are beginning to see some results from your new outlook on how to best manage your situation, all good. I know you won't back slide into bad habits.
Stay strong and keep up the good DR'ing.
Mark.
DR'ing started March 2017
Don't blow the last bridge up from fantasy island, act "as if".
