I know you're right Benni and I think I can do it. My only concern is that with the kids around it will be all talk about our great weekend and acting like it was OK that he wasn't there. That makes me feel like I'm telling him it was OK to be off with OW and not with his kids if that makes sense? Like I'm showing by my actions that it's OK for him to do what he's doing but I don't know how it can not come across like this when we did have a great weekend? I know this sounds like I'm analysing but I'm not I'm just confused about the message I'm giving off.


Me 46 H 39
M 11 T 14
S 10 DO 8
ILYBNILWY 11.06.17
Separate rooms 11.06.17
ILW OW A ongoing 12.06.17
Kicked H out 23.6.17
H came home 20.8.17



Tomorrow is another day