H called last night and I missed the call as we were playing in the garden. He then text asking if I was around which I didn't see until I was getting DO in the shower, I text and said, sorry didn't hear my phone just getting DO in shower. He replied to say let him know when she was done and he would call. I did and he called and spoke to DO then S, DO wasn't really interested as she was playing and S told him about his cricket match (H didn't know he had been selected as we hadn't heard from him since last Thursday. S told him about his new bike and that we had been to see my friends new puppy. The line wasn't very good and S got bored and passed the phone to me. H asked how I was I said fine all very up beat how was he. H apologised for not calling but said 'he didn't think it was right' I just said no problem again very up beat. He then started to say something about football tonight but the line was really bad so I said I would speak to him later/tomorrow (today). He was also drunk when he called only 7.30pm.
He told DO last week that he would be back on Monday and this is now my dilemma how do I handle this? He would normally take them to football, bring them home and stay here and take them to school on Tuesday morning as he starts late on a Tuesday. This is all pre BD when I was also working so wouldn't be home until late if at all on a Monday. Remember the kids don't know about my job or that H has left so I don't know how to play it? I told DO this morning because she asked that I may not be back until after she goes to bed tonight but I don't want to see him and he id definitely not staying in the house. I could go to a friends and come back late evening after they are in bed or I could get a friend to take over and he tells the kids he has to go back to work?? Do I initiate the contact with H regarding this or wait for him to approach me?
Me 46 H 39 M 11 T 14 S 10 DO 8 ILYBNILWY 11.06.17 Separate rooms 11.06.17 ILW OW A ongoing 12.06.17 Kicked H out 23.6.17 H came home 20.8.17
