well our trip was amazing. Weather was 30% rain and rain it did. actually more at night than in the day so it made for some interesting sounds on the trailer.
we kayaked 4 of the lakes there and i had to portage the kayaks since the girls were having a hard time with all of our gear. I go-pro'd the weekend for a movie i made on youtube. Girls loved it.
As for her guilt trip. i believe like you Cali. we are all indifferent to our MLC'r. It didn't phase us one bit. We didn't even mention her once. We always went there with XW, but now it is our place.
i do have a new chapter. I met someone that i have been seeing more and more. No plans to move her in or me there. We simply enjoy our time together. It started a year ago and i kept it at bay. 2 times a week and never sleep over. The girls don't need that. They have met her and like her. They know we are dating and really like the fact I am not throwing it in their face. No need to.
we will see where it goes. She knows what I went through and knows as well that my next 2 years is solo living with the girls. Her to accept or not. So far so good.
it is weird sometimes giving someone else your heart. My story shouldn't of been like this. But any person including Xw mistreats my girls the way she did, MLC or not. Is off list. Besides , I cant see my XW ever doing the work needed.
No news since the last message from her about her dad. The roommate of her dying dad called me tonight. Updating me on his health. He is doing bad. It;s sad he had to go through this with his wife and now see his daughter do the same. I really wish him peace. he deserves it.
M51 XW43 (38 at bd) BD1 MAY 30 2015 BD2 JUNE 25 2015 by text moved out Aug 2 2015 left both Daughters 13 and 15 (now 18-20) Her divorce Final July 26 2016 Last time she saw her kids Aug 2 2015