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[bhappy2]

Ok update time:

W just said ok we are going to give this another chance, this took a good two weeks of detachment before she has said anything about the R. I did notice slowly but surely we were doing more together and talking more, I never asked were do we stand.

I am not saying things are 100% back at all but its a start. She is smiling again and looks at me when talking.

Here are some things that I did:
-Left her alone
-stop accusing her of having an A
-began focusing on myself
-teeth whitening (she saw me doing this and ask what kind of strips I was using)
-I already was working out but she started to notice that I lost weight
- I didnt walk around the house pouting
- I certainly didnt beg,or pursue to any extreme. When I was going somewhere I asked if she wanted to come if her responce was yes then she came, if it was "I dont know" then she didnt want to come.

Now my only question is this DO I REALLY WANT THIS? Am I going to be comfortable knowing that she was so hurt by me that she went from being hurt to wanting to leave me. BTW she never once suggested D, not once.