...or a 'dating after divorce' one - that'll give him something to think about. grin

Really though - I wouldn't worry about what he may think of what you do. It's time to let that go. It did take time for me to really get there, but I came to see that what I thought about what I did was what really mattered. What XH thinks about what I did isn't really on my radar at all and it doesn't really concern me at all because I thought his behaviour and perceptions were so skewed when we split up, I wouldn't really value his opinion anyway.

Looking back, my marriage mattered to me a lot and I tried to save it as best I could with the tools I had at that time. There is peace in knowing that. Your H may or may not be lucky enough to find that peace going forward, but it is something to be grateful for.

Enjoy your boat trip Sweetie xx

T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus