And that, my friend, is detaching! I am so proud of you, I wish I as there to smother you in a hug. The GAL really is the trick to properly detaching. When we stop hinging everything on our WAS's behavior/texts/words then we can heal. You are important, you matter, and your WAH is a fool not to see your worth. I found when I put the focus on my friends and family and stopped hinging everything on whether or not WH was going to be there then I detached.
M 10yrs T 13yrs BD #1Oct 2015-PA between WAH and COW BD #2 April 2016-WH resumed PA, she broke it off Jan 2 2017 WH says he wants divorce April '17-Letting go 2018 D busted DD8, DS6, DS3