Agree 100% with Sandi and Cadence. Stop overthinking, sorry for the 4'x4'. You have have been giving advice I would have loved/dreamed to have when I caught him the first time. Those ladies have so much knowledge. TO, we are here for you and we know you can do it. Life is a journey, it's like hiking, you see the top of the mountain but it takes energy, detours, and pauses to reach it. Ask your lawyer if leaving his spouse without money for the welfare of the kids can be used as "abuse".
Me 52+ WH 57+ Married 20 + Piecing since 2016 (ready to give up...)
