Working on it TO! I've come along way but not quite there yet! I've Distanced myself a whole heck of alot though. That pregnancy deal almost sent me back to the stone age. She still [censored] me in a little bit but I don't let it get to me much.

Always been a fan of fighting so I'm back training Jiu jitsu. Got out my comfort zone and asked my clients for referrals and they actually sent me some. The selling aspect of a CPA practice intimidates me but I'm 31 years old, I need to learn. Dusted off my CFP study materials and going to refresh myself before the exam in august. Trying to hang out with old friends. Lost 25 lbs. I'm doing ok but yeah my W sneaks in my head still quite often but I am waking up now looking forward to the journey vs waking up saying not this again.


M 1.5 years, her affair was before 1 year
T 7 Years

Wife left October 2016
Affair began August 2016

Me 31 years old
Wife 29 years old