The other thing I wanted to say is that reading Codependent No More really helped me and (as a recovering 'nice girl') there are two questions I ask myself:
Does this work for me?
What do I need to do to look after myself in this situation?
I can't tell you how much these questions have helped me. If you asked them of yourself, what would your answers be?
T 13 M 7 Me 48 H 46 SS 15 BD 7.14 PA D final 5.16 (H filed)
We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus
