I did have to laugh at your post so thank you. And Juju thank you for your kind words.
The boundary stuff with not coming here is difficult. Per the L he has every right to come and go here as he pleases. It is just as much his house as it is mine.
I don't have the $$$ for a 5k lawyer retainer on top of him not paying bills for the 90-120 days it would take. So I have to be very cautious of that.
Yes i would like to have him stop coming here and using this as a hotel b I just have to figure out how to do that so that it doesn't do more harm for me.
The other thing H said to me before I left was that I always know everything. Like when he said he was leaving just for space for a week or two and I said I'm not stupid H you've done this before I know this story and how it plays out. He said ya because you know everything.
I want to be done. I want to not care. I would rather him do his primping elsewhere. He's either here or not. It's not come and go based on your plans.
I just don't know that I should make my statement about me. Because he says it's always what I want.
