Kaizen and Anotherstander,

Thanks for talking me off ledge. I almost came completely unglued. It appears W's OM is doing some sort of promo video for the company hence that's why they liked it. I was doing great lately and that was almost a setback if I would have confronted. W used to be 105 lbs and now she is 120 with a lot of weight on the belly. Weird stuff but maybe she is depressed and hates her life as she claims.

Thanks again, that could have gotten ugly. Feel like an idiot but it happens I suppose. Lesson learned, don't assume and stop snooping!


M 1.5 years, her affair was before 1 year
T 7 Years

Wife left October 2016
Affair began August 2016

Me 31 years old
Wife 29 years old