We need to remember that at this moment our WS heads are full of chemicals where logic doesn't exist! They are TOTALLY focuses on the LO and nothing else matters, what can you do? We can't control these people BUT we can control ourselves, I'm not on FB at all I have confided in people who I know will support and don't really rely on my family too close and will give you unbiased support.
All I can say is I put the fences up and concentrate on the boys and me and like you most of the time am refereeing. I know how hard this is I saw my WW kissing her AP/LO goodbye when I was driving back to my "home" and can't get that picture out of my head.
Just remember they are on an all time high BUT where can this go - downwards you on the other hand is on an all time low BUT where can this go - only upwards so chin up and get out there and have fun with both your D and S. They will appreciate your support as you show them what a parent is meant to behave like.
Keep those spirits up.
Mark.
DR'ing started March 2017
Don't blow the last bridge up from fantasy island, act "as if".
