Disappointed I lowered myself. It will be interesting how long she'll stay away but it's stopped the cake eating and now she has to rely on the AP for all of her emotional needs where I feel she was getting from me to a degree.
Don't get me wrong I'll always be there for her and talk like a friend and continue to be her safe place BUT feel the detaching as been stepped up a notch and looking forward will make dealing with each day a little easier knowing that there MUST be a reason for her to come to me whether it be temperature checking or the start of any reconciliation.
It will be hard as there will always be some contact when drop off pick ups happen but these will only be a matter of seconds now instead of minutes.
What sticks with me are those trophies taking pride of place in MY house unbelievable and its only been 7-months!
Thanks for the continued support.
Mark.
DR'ing started March 2017
Don't blow the last bridge up from fantasy island, act "as if".
