Limerence and My Situation 2

[Parkema]

Hi SJ

I understand these people who are no longer the person you fell for can be masters of manipulation and as you say know exactly how to bring out the worst in us. I know you'll show him what an idiot he is when he sees you going out enjoying yourself and this for me is key.

I started somewhat centred on my WW but as time goes on and the situation evolves I'm getting more and more focuses on me and my boys just enjoying being with them and getting out.

Eventually our WS will start to see their AP/LO for what they really are but by then will it be too late..?

I'm going to continue to fight for my marriage and my W because I love her as much as I ever have and don't want anybody to say to me I didn't try everything to save my marriage BUT will continue to get out and enjoy myself.
GAL
No contact unless she initiates.
Work on myself P.I.E.S
No pursuing

But again I will always show her at every opportunity that I'm her friend and a safe place IF she needs it which she will when their world comes crashing down..

Look after yourself I'm here for you.

Mark.