Anytime we find ourselves thinking 'I wish she/they would change' or I wish 'this would change' - we need to remember that the only thing we get to change is ME.
So, that may be about reframing, perspective or it may be about boundaries, action or something else.
It strikes me that you have spent a lot of time trying to 'control' outcomes here...perhaps it is time to try something different? What would your other options be do you think?
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We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus
